10 Things I Cannot Live Without

 Hello Fam! I hope this post finds you well and in good spirits.😄

This particular blog post will be short and sweet.

I'm coming to you after contemplating what to expose about myself next. I love using my Pinterest account to find gems I don't think are on any other social media platforms.

I use to be a creature of habit. I think in some ways, I still am. I can't eat the way I used to or have the same stamina I once had, but I do try to live my life instead of just existing. I am fundamentally a decent person. I don't set out to intentionally hurt anyone, nor do I seek harm to anyone who has hurt me. I let karma do its job. I will continue to be humble and grateful for each breath I take.

Now that that's out the way, let's get to some fun stuff.

Below are my top ten things I can't live without:

1) Music

Music over the years has been my best friend, my therapist, my confidant, my tear-jerker and my soul healer. I couldn't live on this planet without music. Could not!

2) Positive energy

I don't need daily affirmations to help navigate me through. However, I've had so many negative things happen to me ( and if I'm being honest, I've done negative things) upon much research and daily meditation, I need to have a positive outlook on my life. Wallowing in self-defeat and self-destructive actions will only produce negative outcomes. Yes, I'm a bit of a realist, but I'm a Libra y'all. I'm also a dreamer. I need balance in my life.

3) Good food

I won't say I'm a foodie, but I do enjoy different varieties of food. From a fresh Caprese salad to homemade mac' n cheese, ya girl has been blessed with a "cooking" hand and a lovely palette.

4) Books & Magazines

Uhh, this almost does not need an explanation. As an avid reader and writer, it's essential I read. Even if it's only the daily news online, I have to read every day.

5) My laptop

It's the center of my universe. Simple as that.

6) Notebooks

I think my last count was 10? I need to take a look. I'm working on three projects at the moment and there is a notebook for each one. I try to keep them close to me, along with my laptop.

7) Documentaries and BBC shows

I was losing faith in the quality of shows until the last 5 years. Thank goodness there are stories being made on independent networks! Kudos to Netflix for showcasing shows AND movies I wouldn't normally see here in the United States. My current obsession is Mindhunter and other shows about solving crimes.

8) Water

Not just consuming water, but at the very least, having a body of water to sit by or jump in.

9) Friends-

I have a small group of friends that I can call and count on.


10) Love

Whether it's from my partner, my kids (biological or bonus) or my family, I know I'm loved. I 'm not in shortage of that.

Fall season is around the corner. I love Autumn and all it brings. I may blog about that.
Until then...

Be well,

Darlene

                                               

                                         
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My Dream Cast & Soundtrack Composer

Hello Fam!

After writing the post about the lack of POC representation in movies, I decided to create my perfect cast should my books ever be seen in a visual media form.  I created a list of actors/actresses who myself and my team would love to portray as my characters in a movie or cable network weekly show.

It's important to note that my female characters are POC and LGBTQ+, the rest of the cast (and crew) will be diverse across the board as well.

I want my work to reflect my surroundings. Representation is important and vital.

The talented individuals listed below were also chosen because their work in itself is exemplary.


In order of picture from left to right.

Alex aka Alexis~ Unknown Talent, Darius~Mahesh Jadu, Jacqueline aka Jackie~Janelle Monae
Midnight aka Katrine Baten~Tessa Thompson, Dominique~Aja Naomi King                                      President~Paul Bettany, David Reynolds aka Iva ~ TS Madison
Scientist~ Andre Holland, Melanie~ Brely Evans & Adamina O'hare~ Bryce Dallas Howard
                                                               
There are other characters that are pertinent to the success of the story but those roles will be happily casted by virtually unknown  and undiscovered talent.

Moving on to what music I would choose called the Original soundtrack.
I love music. From Country to Classical. However, most of the music I listen to is Contemporary R& B.
I've always attached a Youtube video to my posts. Anyone who reads it can get a glimpse of what I listen to while I create my next post.
I've been a part of the process to shoot and put together a short film. One of the great elements to a film, (Tv show or even documentaries) is when music moves a scene. It sets the tone. Think about it. Most iconic movies have a fantastic soundtrack or at the very least a song you identify with it.
Below is a short list of movies that I love with amazing soundtracks:

The Wiz
The Wizard of Oz
Harry Potter Movies
Road to Perdition (Tom Hanks)
Dead Presidents
Lord of the Rings
Doris Day Movies
Carmen Jones
Waiting to Exhale
Gentlemen Prefer Blondes
Gypsy
Meet me in St. Louis

Being creative and wanting the public to watch an interpretation of a novel turned into some form of visual medium I believe would be an extraordinary experience. Waiting for the day with bated breath! I can feel it coming...

Have a beautiful week ahead!

                   
                                       

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                               Original song from the Soundtrack from "Road to Perdition"

The Writing Process and the Challenges of bringing relevant content

Hello Dawnettes and anyone that was guided here from my social media platforms!

Welcome and thank you for coming. Please leave a comment or ask a question if you wish.

Okay. So, as a writer, I try to make sure that when I post on social media I'm being as genuine as I can. I want to follow as many people as I can. I love to share and support others who are engaging with me.
Recently, I have begun to be more visible on Twitter. I have lessened my visibility on Instagram. The choices of why I changed they way I want my brand to showcase me as more than just a writer. Even here on my blog, I tackle different issues. This is where I can truly express what I feel without feeling I owe an explanation to anyone about what I write.

This blog is about the the process and the frustration that I feel most writers face. Coming up with content that is entertaining and tries to keep you interested from the first line in the first chapter to the epilogue. Your hope that you've done all the right things. Connected all the dots and the editor has made sure the story has continuity and flows like you originally intended. I believe writers are already feeling defeated before anyone reads their work. I think we are our worst critics. We may get writers block or just need to step away from your writing to get a fresh perspective.
Coming up with content takes research, ingenuity and imagination. The mindset it takes to achieve a short story, novella or even an epic novel takes blood,sweat and tears(literally).

At the end of your finished creation, there should be a sense of satisfaction. A jubilation. It's short lived. Because, now you have to let others see it. Review it, like it or dislike it. Interpet it the way they see it. However, your gleeful that anyone has taken the time to read what your imagination came up with.
It's exhausting. It's a lonely job. Having a network of other writers helps, because they understand your journey.
To my readers and fandom, I thank them with every fiber in my body. To the Writing community, thank you for the continued support. This is one thing I know for certain...

"No one wants to be in consent torment of putting words to paper. But to a writer it's a necessary evil."

Have a great week ahead!

Grief...

DISCLAIMER: THIS BLOG IS ABOUT GRIEF AND TRAUMA*


Hello Dawnettes & Fam,

This blog comes to you after a very tragic event has happened to my family. In particular, my daughter. The only reason I'm sharing this personal event is that I believe it's important to show that through resilience, strength, time and love can help in situations that are still dealing with the passing of a loved one.

Grief: deep sorrow, especially that caused by someone's death.

"she was overcome with grief"

synonyms: sorrow, misery, sadness, anguish, pain, distress, agony, torment, affliction, suffering, heartache, heartbreak, broken-heartedness, heaviness of heart, woe, desolation, despondency, dejection, despair, angst, mortification


I can tell you that every word in the definition stated above I've felt in the past month and watching someone have an unexplainable pain or anguish makes it almost unbearable. The sadness that accompanies this particular death brought those around me to the breaking point. From my partner to my other two children.

There was an outpouring of love and empathy. On the other hand, it seemed as if it was too hard for people to convey what they felt. Some didn't even know what to say or what do at a time like this.

Let me give you some advice, to those of you that may not know what to say or how to react to a person dealing with grief and loss.
Just listen👂. Really listen, without replying. Offer a meal, babysitting {if the individual has children}, maybe even booking a room for a few days so "they" have a quiet place to reflect or just to get away. Offering condolences is wonderful, but truthfully, your friends or loved ones need support in areas you wouldn't normally think of. That's where you will make a difference. That's where you are appreciated because you thought outside the box.

And please for goodness sake, follow up people!!!!!😔


Grief doesn't have a time period. Check up on them and make sure they've eaten or had a bath/shower. I know it sounds crazy, but trust me you have made a difference with just a simple follow up phone call.💓


In the past, I've dealt with my trauma with therapy and sharing my experience. It almost seems trivial at this point. But, I definitely have a different perspective on my life and the people in my life.


I want to thank everyone who lovingly helped my daughter and her boyfriend. I want to thank my family and friends for what they were able to provide in the midst of this.

And I want to hug and uplift my partner. She shared the experience with me while dealing with life and regular duties at home while grieving on her own.


To my daughter-

I love you💖 and as you try to navigate and find your way out of this storm, know you have people rooting for you and love you unconditionally.

Be well,
D.

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!!!!!CONTEST ALERT!!!!

                                                               

Hello Fam. This is the first time I am conducting a contest and I'm PUMPED!

The launching of my second book "Alex Races Against the Dawn-The Vampyir Plague Book 2" has been a labor of love and I wanted to give back in a fun & engaging way.

So, If you visit my Twitter account, Twitter Page or My website and follow the instructions you will be entered to when 1 of three prizes.

I will provide the links to my social media outlets below.🔔🔔🔔

I want to take a moment and thank everyone that has helped in making this launch possible. From the people that are in my life that motivated me to create these characters to the people that helped put my creation together. Family, friends, Advocates and personalilties from the LGBTQ community, my editor and the wonderful company that created my cover. I also want thank everyone that has ever crossed my path, in some way shape or form. You have in some way contributed to this book and my writing.

So, go!→ Now and enter the contest! Good luck!!!

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                             Music I enjoyed to while I was making this blog:

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                                                        Sade~ Keep Looking

              

The Nerd in me is coming out. Yes, I Like SteamPunk!

Hello Dawnettes! Welcome to the world of SteamPunk!!


I needed to discuss a subject that I wanted to know more information about. Especially with all that is happening in the world this week. 

STEAMPUNK! This is a world I think I could live in. A combination of Sci-Fi with an old world feel to it, at the same time with a futuristic overtone. Steampunk reminds me of Medieval times. Periods dating around 1500's. The Medieval Period has always been a time that I found most fascinating. Whether it be a television show or a novel, I've always been intrigued and researched what was going on historically.  This year, I'm planning on attending the Faire. I've even attended several Renaissance Faires in the past.

I visited Portland in 2016 for about a month before moving to Washington for a year. In that time frame, I discovered SteamPunk and wanted to attend an event to get a feel for it. However, I left before I had the chance.😪


Now that I'm back in California and I have an opportunity to see parts of the state I haven't visited before, I think I'm going to see if there is an event near where I live.


I love graphic novels and I would like to delve into or at the very least, explore different genres. I love Sci-Fi, Fantasy, Paranormal, and Horror. I'm lovingly adding on SteamPunk; you have to change it up every now and again.

I would love to get feedback on this subject from people who know more about it. Once this blog is posted, I will reach out via social media and see what happens.

I needed to remind myself of the definition of Steampunk. Here is what I found:

steam·punk

Dictionary result for steampunk

/ˈstēmˌpəNGk/

noun

1. a genre of science fiction that has a historical setting and typically features steam-powered machinery rather than advanced technology.

   
   

   "if you like steampunk, this is a great book for you"

   • a style of design and fashion that combines historical elements with anachronistic technological features inspired by science fiction.

     
     

     "the essence of steampunk is homage to vintage fashion with a modern, sassy twist"

   
   

Thank goodness for Pinterest and Tumblr. These platforms have so much to view

as far as seeing images and connecting with others that share the same interest. Now all I need is to pick up a pair of goggles, a top hat, and a corset!

Hope everyone has a great weekend. 

Be well,

D.

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What I listened to while making this blog.

{I DO NOT OWN THE RIGHTS TO THE SONG}

Toni Braxton

Toni Braxton-Long as I live

Book 2 Release Update!!!!!

                               

                                

                  HAPPY RELEASE DAY! 

                                   OMG!!!! 

      The day I've been putting off for 

          two years is finally here!

       

                             

                                                 

Hello Fam & Dawnettes!

One of the main reasons I've put off releasing the book has been I just wasn't ready. Seriously.
I've had to re-adjust my thinking. Bumps and bruises along the way and definitely learned a few lessons. Plus I wanted to make this second release go off without a hitch. And that takes time, patience and humility.

Yes, Ladies & Gentlemen Book 2 is being released on March 1st and I couldn't be happier. Well, that's not true. If my books were being made into a web series or picked up by a cable network I would be ecstatic.
In any case, I'm thrilled beyond measure at the release of Book 2 in my five part series.

Let's start with the premise of the entire series. 

A virus is spreading around the world and killing Human Beings and destroying Vampires. The Vampyirs(pronounced Vampires) are experiencing what they call the Ultimate death. 

Each book is from the main character's viewpoint. Her character will showcase her journey from being Human to being turned into a Vampyir. Along the way you will share her experiences as she tries to navigate through the world as a Vampyir fighting for her kind's survival and how vital her role is during the Plague Years.

HERE SHE IS:

Cover done by Creative Designs Ankh

Alex Races Against the Dawn~ The Vampyir Plague is available for Pre-Order right now!

Once you have purchased the book, it's with great humility that I ask, if you have a moment to leave a review. 😉

And now, a lil synopsis about the current book...

You will be introduced to the world according to Alex (aka Alexis from Book 1). She is second in command in Midnight's coven and Midnight's confidant. The Vampyir Plague is running its course.  In this installment, more will be revealed about the plague itself in this installment and how our UN-dead ladies are dealing with it.

There will be twists and turns. Blood of course. Sex, women, a few men and even a bit of magic.
This book will take you to places around the world and into the dark side of history in the United states from the late 1800's to the mid 2000's.

I hope you will enjoy this latest publication. I put a lot of time and effort ( and promoting!!!!) into this novel.

And while you are in the mood of all things Vampy, Please visit my newly "revamped" website for upcoming events. I have a few surprises in store for ya!

Thank you so much Fam for your continued support😊

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Character Inspired Images*

*Music I listened to while writing my novel and my character's theme song: As a reminder~ I DO NOT OWN THE RIGHTS TO THIS SONG

       Syd- From the album Fin~ Nothing to Somethin

If you would like any information regarding the design of my cover, click on the book cover image! You will be pleasantly surprised.

Happy Black History Month! Let's Celebrate

Hello Fam & Dawnettes,


Diversity is the new word that has woven it's way into our social consciousness. So much so, that it's changing the way we view and think of others that are outside of our culture and race. It's always been there. However, it has become more prevalent in recent times.

 So, I have said in the past when you visit my blog, you will not find anything of a "political" nature. I created this blog for several reasons. I've come to the belief that when someone has a platform, certain subjects should be addressed.

Well, fortunately I created a space where I can speak on this subject. Not only because it's long overdue, but it goes along with my personal motto and I know I'm not alone in my thinking. This will be a particularly long post, so sit tight and read on.👀

Cinematic films have come a long way. Films can transports us to another place and time. It can have an impact on those who want to go into acting, film directing or even be part of the process, for example; the crew. Movies can reach people in places where in many cases people wouldn't even know they existed. They can also educate or give you a different viewpoint from five people all at once. Such as documentaries or give you glimpse into someone personal life. Biopics. You get the jest.
I recently came across a post about a movie with a portrayal of a masculine centered lesbian. I thought, "Yeah, let's see what this is about." And let me say this before I begin. I like all genres. If it's interesting, from foreign to Sci-fi I will watch it.
There are only two reasons that I would pay money to go see a movie at this point. The cast has someone I truly enjoy their work or the subject matter. Back in the day, I loved going to the movies. I loved seeing the previews and the anticipation of what's to come in the next few months or upcoming year. The fragrance of popcorn looming in the air. The stickiness beneath your shoes as you walk on the floor to get your perfect seat.
Now, I'm just annoyed. I get anxiety thinking someone is going to bring their baby into the theatre or answer their cell phone during the movie. I digress. Let me get back on topic.

I understand not everyone's performance is entertainment. There are groups of people that will never see another group of people's work simple because of their race. That's reality.
However, there still should be a reflection of the current times and the landscape in general. I agree there are certain reason's movies become blockbusters or iconic films.
With that being said, I started to delve into my collection of favorite movies from the 1940's ( yes, I love older movies) to recent times.
I understand "we" have come a long way. There are certainly more POC representation in films than when featured cinema were originally created. Quite a few Black Actresses and Actors have paved the way for many to the ability to be able to do they can do now. We have also seen some changes in the way we are represented. The negative stereotypes have somewhat faded away, but not entirely gone.

In 2018, there were a total of 38 movies with People of Color and female in lead roles.
68% of all female characters were white in the top 100 films of 2017. 16% were Black, 7% were Asian, 7% were Latina, and 2% were of another race or ethnicity. Women and Hollywood(Center for the Study of Women in Television and Film)📉

 

There is an amazing documentary about this very subject done by Shudder network called "Horror Noire: A History of Black Horror." It is being showcased across the country, but if you can't make it to the showings you can check it out on Shudder on Feb 7th! Please take a moment and visit  Graveyard Shift Sister's website. 
"Graveyard Shift Sisters is an online resource dedicated to the scholarship surrounding the experiences, representations, achievements, and creative works of Black women and women of color in the horror and science fiction genres." from the about section located on website.*

I watched Viola Davis's Emmy speech in 2015 (and along with various reasons such as the documentary highlights) it forever changed the narrative of why I continue to write they way I do.
I thoroughly enjoy writing as a whole. I love creating my characters, their world, and introducing the chaos that comes with it. Going forward it has purpose for me. It's my choice. It's not only my purpose but my duty as a writer to create these characters with layers and complex personalities and definitely with a defiant and clear, rich cultural background.

Always,

Be well,

D.

                               

I DO NOT OWN THE RIGHTS TO THIS SONG
Song I listened to while I was writing this blog:Blue Girl by Q-Tip

Learning to Navigate through this journey as a Writer

Hello, Dawnettes and other wonderful individuals who decided to check me out! 

Welcome and please feel free to subscribe to my wacky world of opinions and other interesting tidbits of that cross my path.

*Shameless plug: If you have read my current novel Midnight Comes With the Dawn-The Vampyir Plague, please leave a review. Thanks!👍📝*

Let's begin on the title on this particular blog. I try not to let any personal issues seep through and end up for public view.
However, on this blog, I will have to give a bit of a personal struggle because I feel someone will benefit from it.
Now let's begin.

On April 25, 2015, I had reached a milestone. On that date, I completed my first interview. It took a little tweaking, but rest assured I am very pleased with the outcome. I was so grateful ( and I still am.) that the author chose me to be the first "Author of the month" in their podcast. I was literally crying as I blogged it back then. There are so many dimensions to me and my brand.  I feel like I've only just begun my journey as a human being with many interests. Even though I'm a little older than I look! 😉
I say all this because some people don't understand that it isn't always easy to maintain a balance between writing and have other different things going on in your life.😌

In the past, I have always tried to be a fair-minded individual and give you all that I have. I'm not without flaws or shortcomings and I'm definitely not a selfish person. I have also felt somewhat guilty if I'd take time to do something for myself. That, in turn, translates to me that I'm not giving back to my family or I'm not dealing with a current crisis firsthand.
Over the years, I learned positive and painful lessons. I didn't let myself recharge. I didn't love myself enough to grow as a woman. I needed to come to terms with living my truth and accepting who I was. I'm happy to report that eventually happened. Everything from that point, I have tried to improve my surroundings, develop better relationships with people in my life and set boundaries.

In 2018, I've had to evaluate and make changes. Which I will admit, it was a struggle at first. My mind is always racing and I have so many ideas, it's a little hard to contain all of them. As the weekend draws closer, I'm trying to keep calm and give myself permission to just breathe. There are times that I need personal space. My partner has been working diligently with me on this issue to make sure I take the time I need. What a bumpy road it has been! Trust me!

It's consent struggle to write and be creative. It's not also easy to just sit in front of a computer and write. At least not for me. I need people to understand this.  Writers from all walks of life already know this. They even set up a regiment to complete daily writing tasks.  I get comments from people all the time who don't write for a living telling me, "Why haven't you written anything lately? I thought writing was therapeutic for you?" and other side eyed questions.👀
In addition to writing, I have to check on my social media accounts. I don't post as I have in the past for several reasons. According to most authors and writers, there is a balance and a rhythm you have to juggle if you want viewership, followers or build your fan base. You have to constantly put out content and respond to those who take the time to comment. Yes, I realize there are apps and self-help books that can help me. As I write this, my only thoughts are to have a grilled cheese sandwich and watch Boxtrolls. (I love cartoons.) 

I'm a writer. A published author. A dedicated Partner & Mom. There are many other facets to me. My main objective as a writer is: Writing, blogging and creating new content with POC (People of Color) & LGBTQ+ representation. 

I did accomplish a few goals this week. Important things for my writing career. I'm making strides thanks to my commitment to stay on task and complete my personal goals this year. 

When I put my headphones on and listen to my music, I'm transported into another world. I'm at peace. I can write and be productive. 
"Checks and balances" fam is my motto this year. No rants to report. I'm too busy being thankful.

Until next time loves, stay blessed, positive, and know that every new day is an opportunity. Keep an open door to new ideas and a fresh start

Hugs

Be well...

D.

           
I DO NOT OWN THE RIGHTS TO THIS SONG*
What I listened to while writing this blog: Liberian Girl- Micheal Jackson